Wanna know the ONE tool I use all the time to flirt and create sexual tension? It’s the function on my cell phone for text messaging. You will, naturally, be familiar with text messaging unless you’ve spent the last two years in a cave. These are brief “email style” messages that you can send to people using your cell phone. They’re widely used because they’re incredibly useful for asking a quick question or sending a brief message. The interesting thing is that women love texting! Watch a girl in a social setting, and you’ll notice how many text messages she sends. I actually believe that this form of technology is rapidly taking the place of phone conversations. So when you text message a girl the RIGHT way, you can quickly build enough attraction that you won’t have to do much IN-PERSON when you see her next. But we have a huge problem here… Almost all guys screw-up what they write on their texts. They text the way we men would typically have conversations. When talking to one another, we males tend to think logically and create plans. This means their texts are usually straight to the point. On the other hand, text messaging is seen by women as a method of getting to know each other. They use it to describe their issues and remain in touch with people in their lives. It’s important to remember this rule when texting! The best way to use text messaging is to build SEXUAL TENSION. Before sending a text, I will take time to consider how this text will move forward the flirting and sexual tension that’s already there with this girl. Irrespective of whether I’m teasing her, sending “comfort” messages or simply making plans, my text messages are specifically crafted to create a strong emotion in the woman who is receiving them! I can honestly say that the sending of a well-crafted text message can be extremely beneficial. With that being said, I’m actually really surprised at the LACK of information about sending text messages to women. Most guys I know use them, but precious little has been written on the subject! So for the last 5 months, I’ve had to create my own system for text messaging. So let’s cover the fundamentals of text messaging. Hardly a day goes by when I don’t receive an e-mail from a guy who wants to understand the correct way to text a girl. Primarily I get TWO main questions: 1) What’s the purpose behind texting? 2) Can you show examples of messages you’ve actually sent? Let’s really get into the meat of these two questions #1- What is the purpose for texting? Bottom line- Text messaging is all about creating and maintaining sexual tension! When you first get a number, it’s simple to have attraction. But this is quickly lost in the time between getting her number and calling her for the first time. You can keep the attraction alive in the time you’re apart by the use of text messages. Never consider replacing a phone call with a text message, but text her a few messages to ensure that you are never far from her thoughts. When next you call her, she’ll straightaway recognize all those good feelings and emotions you’ve previously given her. This makes it easy to get her on the phone and set up a 2nd meeting (ie: First Date) I personally use my text messages to STAND OUT from the other guys who might be calling this girl. There are just two things I focus on when texting a girl 1) Teasing her with an air of familiarity creates the sense that I already know her well 2) The use of call back humor to an event or conversation that occurred when we met As a rule I’ll begin a text conversation by referring to something specific from our first conversation. (This is how to use the call-back humor that I just mentioned) For instance, a few weeks back I met an attractive girl from Eastern Europe. The second she opened her mouth I couldn’t believe how much she sounded like the guy from the Borat movie. And once I confirmed that she saw the movie and “got the joke”, I teased her mercilessly about sounding like Borat. Starting the first message by referring to Borat seemed the natural thing to do. This leads to the next question that I want to cover (This is where I provide the 12 proven messages that I promised at the start of this article) #2- Could you provide real-life examples of your most successful messages? I said earlier that I will typically use call-back humor with my text messages. This makes the provision of “cookie-cutter” examples so much harder. However, there are occassions when I didn’t get a chance to use call-back humor. Even when I didn’t get the opportunity to know a girl better, I’ll still attempt a few messages that have gotten a great response previously. Here are 12 messages I’ve personally used ==> After meeting a girl- (Use 2-3 hours after the first meeting to establish initial contact) 1) “I know you’re thinking about me. So just thought I’d say hi!” 2) “My ears are burning…please stop talking about me!” 3) “Wow…that’s really weird. I think I just saw your twin. Could you be stalking me?” ==> Lifestyle updates- (Use to keep contact ever other day & demonstrate that you’re a fun/interesting person ) 4) “Dude…you won’t believe what my cat just did…” 5) “I just saw an army of Oompa Loompas. It looks to me like short people are reproducing too fast 6) 88 degrees out. It’s time to pick up a towel and set off for the beach. Too bad you have to work!!!” ==> Building Sexual Tension- (Use after you’ve talked on the phone and set up a 2nd meeting) 7) “Have you missed me yet?” 
“Tomorrow will be awesome. Just try not to embarrass me in front of my good friends” 9) “Can’t wait to see you. You’re just like the bratty little sister I’ve always wanted. ==> After the 2nd meeting- (Use to remind her of the good time she had) 10) “Had an AWESOME time. Hugs & kisses!” 11) “Fun times! I think it’s safe to introduce you to my friends!” 12) “Had a fantastic time! Even if you’re a little dorky…” Sexual tension can be as quickly lost as it was gained. That’s why it’s important to keep up the attraction at ALL points in the relationships you have with women. In other words, never permit the lines of communication to wane. That’s why I personally recommend that you adopt the texting advice that I’ve shared with you in this article and stay in contact with all the women you’re dating (or hope to date).
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