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Your baby finds it difficult to adapt himself to the world when he is newly born. A newborn is often stressed out as he tries to accept his new surroundings, irrespective of what kind of birth he may have had. We can not blame him for being irritable in the first few weeks. You and the baby struggle hard to co-exist and the rest of the household frantically try to calm the ruffled feathers. If you are patient and follow the tips given here then they should help with your difficulties.
Sing and talk to your baby: Your newborn begins to hear your voice while still growing inside you. At his birth he is already able to recognize your voice and this helps to build up his confidence to face the world. Being familiar with your voice he will be able to focus on what you are trying to communicate. As a safe measure wrap your little one in comfortable baby blankets. Often times this makes them feel more safe and secure. You can buy baby blankets and family baby blankets as keepsakes.
He may not be able to see you clearly but he can recognize your presence. Your newborn will reciprocate to your method of communication if you are handling and talking to him in the right way.
Taking your baby in your arms and stroking him will work wonders in your relationship with him. If possible, learn about infant massage techniques and incorporate them into your daily routine. Research suggests that simple massage strokes relieve colic and constipation, as well as help infants establish regular sleep patterns and form stronger bonds with their caregivers.
The physical contact with you assures your baby of his well being. This keeps him happy. This and the warmth of your body quickly send him to sleep in the crook of your arms. You can thus go about with your chores in comfort with your baby close to you.
Attend to your baby whenever he cries even if it bothers you sometimes. There are various reasons why your newborn cries. Pick him up, cuddle him, and try to figure out just what it is he or she needs. Soon you will recognize his cry for hunger over his pain cry and be able to soothe him by quickly filling the need.
Do not think you are spoiling him. Respond to the needs of your newborn. It takes some time for new moms to get used to their babies at first. When your newborn receives your total attention through all his senses, it soothes his nerves.